skynyrd wrote:
Morning mothers
There are ways of telling people that they don't come up to your standards, showing a dps meter and telling them that their pet is doing better than they are, then telling them that they dont deserve a shitty item that nowone else even wanted probably doesn't come under that category.
I really enjoyed my stay with you and was grateful last night to be given the chance to get some gear in order to join in more.
That was the first time to my knowledge that i have dpsed in a raid, I would of happily taken any advice and most likely would of improved in time with gear and practice. But I guess a 42 yr old casual shouldn't expect to keep up in this.
Anyhow I wish you luck, I wont ask to come back so no worries there
H. (calmer and soberer)
I tried to conntact you...repeatedly through raid chat, on comms and /w, asking if things were ok and reason for the lack of involvement...if something was up and such....i even watched you during boss fightsand the trash and was doing very little to no support during kills and was on constant follow...
This was also the word from other people during the raid that /w in response to your lack of actions....there was even another officer present that talked to me about it as well...so i have proof of actions and proof of my words...
Yes i did show the damage metres in the end...after trying to stir some form or response from you...and asking what was the matter...and the fact that your gear in question was not an excuse...yes, i know you only changed spec recently....yes i know that your gear was all over the place cause you had the insufficent gear to follow you spec successfully at the moment...but that still doesnt excluded the fact you DPS out put was not sutible during the raid...the proof was there that my pet was doing more damage then yourself...and even the tanks showed double/triple your own damage output...that my friend show not be the cause what ever the situation...
When the comment about the loot dropping and when receiving...it was your choice to reply "bothered" to me....then when explaining myself you mentioned " This is not a hardcore raiding guild is it?" to my reply was "correct its not....but some effort and support is welcomed duing the raid..." To which you went off in a huff and left guild and started to slate the guild....when in fact, all you needed to do was either A) explain what was up and if it was real life issues then no worries or B) pick your game up and little and prove myself and the others that you were present and doing stuff... and prove me wrong and show that you wanted to be there...but tbh, watching you carefully, see how you aided little/none at all in trash or boss fights...the fact that your decursing on particular mobs was non existant when asked to do so....then yourcurrent actions of the slating of people and our guild....would suggest otherwise...
But its over now and under the bridge what has happened is in past now...im sorry that this was not the guild you wantedto stay in and i hope that you are successful in what ever place you find yourself in and hope that you are well and good in you life to come...
mucho peace
Zut